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What you did that cursed you with awareness
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If you find yourself confused or overwhelmed by your own experiences, meaning your internal thoughts, feelings, and impressions, then this message is for you.
I’m going to uncover something about your reality that you need to face. Let’s start with some facts:
FACT 1: people think more things than they can ever articulate
FACT 2: people feel more things than they can ever express
FACT 3: add them all together, and people still only experience a tiny fraction of the things that are actually happening to them and within them.
CONCLUSION: with mathematical certainty beyond a shadow of a doubt, there is far more to you than you could possibly know or understand. You, and everyone you know, is a mystery.
I expect you, like me, enjoy marveling at the mystery of human existence. But we aren’t meant to just accept the mystery and move on. Just because it seems impossible to uncover it all in our lifetime doesn’t mean the attempt is futile.
We can progress in knowledge and understanding, and unlock new possibilities.
In fact, you probably found me and my company specifically because you’re someone trying to pierce that mystery to understand yourself and others.
And the more you’ve paid attention, the more information has become available to you. And I’m not just talking about books, videos, people you meet, or your AI chatbot. You can of course discover new external sources of information. But something else is also happening to you: the more you listen the more you hear. The more you look the more there is to see.
And it goes deeper: the more you pay attention to your own senses, even down to your gut feelings and quiet impressions, you’ll realize that there are ever more and subtler things you can sense. In short: you are developing the gift, and curse, of ever increasing awareness.
This reality is both thrilling and frightening, much like discovering the vastness of an ocean: awe-inspiring, but equal parts terrifying.
But we can’t avoid the ocean of human experience. We can only ignore it or pay attention.
And it seems like you’ve been paying attention, for better or worse.
Which means you need me now.
I know what it’s like to feel cursed with awareness, and it is not easy. It often makes me feel very heavy and desirous to retreat from the world and from other people. Reality can be scary.
But the flipside of the curse is the gift.
When I understand my feelings and impressions, I can take action confidently. I make far better decisions, and they come more easily. I’m clear and strong on the inside. I can help my loved ones, and my clients, and strangers I meet. I can live my purpose in life.
So what about you? Is that what you want? Because that’s where your journey is headed. You will get there by turning awareness into effective interpretation, and I can show you exactly how to do it.
The first step is to join my free webinar, the Gift of Awareness, which I am holding on Thursday, July 30th, at 8:00-9:30 AM.
Come find out how easy it is to go from a confused wanderer to a reliable interpreter.
With love,
Kirk
Coach Kirk

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